I am not telling you what to do about your problems. I am pointing out how to learn and what learning is so that as you learn about your problem, the problem comes to an end. If somebody tells you what to do about a problem, you then become a child who is being directed. Then you will have more problems. This is so clear and simple. So please, once and for all, get this idea very clearly in your heart and mind, which is that we are here to learn, not to be instructed and thereby commit what is heard into memory. Commitment to memory, and the repetition of that memory, is not the resolution of problems. There is maturity only in learning. There is immaturity when you use knowledge as a means of resolving problems, which only creates further patterns and problems.