Whenever you judge anything, try a small experiment: try to find out who has given you this idea. And if you go deeply into it, you will be surprised: you can even hear your mother saying it, or your father, or your teachers in the school. You can hear their  voices still there resounding in your memory, but it is not yours. And whatsoever is not yours is ugly; and whatsoever  is yours is beautiful, it has grace.