Everybody has been a child, and everybody has the same urge to get love; and nobody is born in any other way. So all are asking, Give us love and there is nobody to give, because the other person is also brought up in the same way. So one has to be alert and aware that just an incident of birth should not remain a constant prevailing state of your mind. Rather than asking, “Give me love,” start giving love. Forget about
getting, simply give; and I guarantee you, you will get much.Missing at the end of this text: But you are not to think about getting. You are not even indirectly, by the side, to watch whether you are getting it or not. That much will be enough disturbance. You simply give, because to give love is so beautiful that getting love is not so great. This is one of the secrets.